I feel this so much! Every time someone says, “It’s not about you,” but their actions scream otherwise, I just know they’re dodging the truth. I used to overthink it, wondering what I did wrong, but I’ve realized it’s not my problem—it’s theirs. Some people just can’t handle seeing others win, and instead of working on themselves, they project their bitterness onto you. Now? I don’t waste my energy on it. Let them be bitter. I’ll be better.